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Until you find that proverbial genie in a bottle, you feel you may never manage to successfully get rid of stress in your life. You feel you’re constantly doing a circus act with all the responsibilities you’re juggling in the air. Although it may be impossible to totally eliminate stress from your system (because in tiny doses, they can be healthy too!), there are easy ways to better manage stress.
Express yourself. That old Madonna song does hold a lot of truth to it. Instead of bottling up your emotions, it helps a great deal to talk about them. Keeping your feelings trapped will only make resentment build, and that could worsen things for you. If someone is troubling you, try to communicate with that person in a respectful manner. It’ll take a huge load off your chest.
Say “No” sometimes. You can never underestimate the power of this magic word. If you start saying “no”, you are cutting down the unnecessary stressors in your life. Taking on more responsibilities at work, for instance, will only push you over the edge of sanity. Know your limits and abide by them. Realize that you are no superhero.
Put things in perspective. Always try to look at the big picture. When you find yourself struggling with a problem or a stressful situation, think of how it figures in time. Will it still matter a month or a year from now? Is it even worth thinking about? If it’s not something significant, then divert your energies elsewhere.
There is no cookie-cutter formula for managing stress. Find what technique suits you like a pair of gloves to a tailored sportsman, and you will soon feel more in control of things.





